Wedding music is an essential part of your wedding planning. Selecting the right First Dance song, deciding whether to hire a DJ, a band, or both, and juggling these choices along with your other endless wedding tasks can be challenging and, at times, overwhelming. However, with a few strategic tips, you can streamline your decisions and ensure the music flows perfectly on your big day.

 

The First Dance Song.
The Father Daughter Dance Song.
The Last Dance Song.
And all songs in between…

 

    Here are some wedding music tips and ideas to keep you on track and save you time and effort:

Be Specific

    Are you a fan of Rock ‘n’ Roll? Do you love Elvis and want several of his classics played at your wedding? Don’t assume that your DJ or band will automatically know this! It’s crucial to talk to the person in charge of your wedding music to ensure they understand your specific musical preferences. Whether it’s a particular style you want to emphasize or a preference to keep the volume low during certain parts of the event, sharing these details in advance can save you from disappointment. That way, when the big day arrives, you can focus on celebrating, confident that the music will reflect your tastes.

Don’t Throw All Your Efforts on the First Dance Song

    If one question can seem almost as daunting as “Will you marry me?” it’s “What should our First Dance song be?” Unless you’re one of the lucky couples who already have “your song,” you may feel a bit overwhelmed by the pressure of this decision. Our advice? Approach this wisely. Instead of endlessly browsing playlists, consider creating a short list of your top five romantic songs. Then, invite your partner to help choose the winner. This collaborative approach keeps things simple and ensures you both feel happy with the choice.

Get Some Dance Lessons

    Whether you’re a natural on the dance floor or a bit self-conscious, there’s always the chance for some pre-wedding jitters to affect your moves. Dance lessons can be a great way to avoid those awkward moments and can even become a fun, relaxing part of your wedding preparations. Not only will they help boost your confidence, but they’ll also give you and your partner a chance to share some laughter and bonding time. When the wedding day arrives, you’ll be able to take the floor with poise and style.

Don’t Forget the Never-Play-These-Songs List!

    It may seem obvious that if you’re not a fan of the “Macarena,” you’re likely not a fan of “Gangnam Style” either. However, your DJ or band won’t know your specific dislikes unless you tell them. For this reason, it’s essential to create a “Do Not Play” list and share it well in advance. This way, you can avoid any musical mishaps during your reception. You might even want to ask for a written confirmation from your DJ that none of the songs on this list will be played. A little foresight here can make a big difference in maintaining the mood you envision for your special day.

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