A flower girl brings charm and sweetness to any wedding ceremony, gracefully preceding the bridal party or even walking just ahead of the bride. Selecting the right flower girl involves a few considerations, from age and family connection to comfort levels. Here are some helpful tips to guide you in choosing a flower girl who will perfectly complement your big day.

 

Consider the Age Range

   Flower girls are often between the ages of 4 and 9. While this isn’t a hard and fast rule, younger children may find it difficult to stay composed for the entire day, whereas children in this age range tend to have a better handle on expectations and responsibilities. Selecting an age-appropriate flower girl helps ensure she’ll be comfortable with her role.

 

Family and Close Friend Connections

   Traditionally, a flower girl is a young relative, such as a niece or cousin of the bride or groom. However, she could also be a godchild or the daughter of a close friend. If there are multiple options, consider choosing two flower girls; not only does this increase the “aww” factor, but it also provides the children with a companion for support, helping them feel more comfortable walking down the aisle together.

 

Introduce Her Role and Responsibilities

   To help your flower girl understand her role, consider giving her a children’s book on being a flower girl. Additionally, invite her to attend bridal showers and other pre-wedding gatherings, which can help her bond with the bridal party and become more familiar with the overall wedding atmosphere. This added familiarity can ease any nervousness she may have on the big day.

 

Choosing the Flower Girl Dress

   Typically, the flower girl’s parents purchase her dress, so it’s courteous to keep budget in mind. Look for dresses at department stores or children’s boutiques, where flower girl dresses are most readily available in late February through March and again in late October through November. The dress should be comfortable and appropriate for a child, allowing her to move freely while complementing the wedding’s style.

 

Make the Day Comfortable for Her

   On the wedding day, consider seating the flower girl’s parents in a front-row aisle seat, giving her a familiar face to focus on during the ceremony. This small detail can provide her with a sense of reassurance and help her feel more at ease. Additionally, flower girls traditionally scatter flower petals along the aisle, but modern alternatives include holding a floral ball, carrying a single flower, or blowing bubbles—any of which can be an adorable touch.

 

Decide If a Flower Girl Fits Your Vision

   Not every wedding needs a flower girl. Some couples prefer a child-free ceremony, while others may simply choose to forego the flower girl tradition. Whether you choose to include a flower girl or opt for an adult-only celebration, communicate your decision to guests to help them plan accordingly.

 

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