Planning a church wedding can seem like an overwhelming and time-consuming task, but with the right tips and a bit of preparation, it can be a smooth and rewarding experience. Whether you’ve always dreamed of a church wedding or simply decided to have one because of its timeless elegance, we’ve compiled the best tips from brides who’ve already gone through the process. Take a moment to read through these suggestions, take notes, and enjoy the journey ahead.

 

Do Your Homework

   Whether you and your partner are frequent churchgoers or simply envision a traditional church ceremony, it’s essential to do your research well before your wedding day. This will save you both time and stress, ensuring that you know exactly what to expect. Start by visiting the church you’ve chosen for the ceremony and inquire about any specific guidelines or restrictions they may have. Many churches have rules regarding everything from music selection to the type of decorations allowed.

   Make sure to talk to the church wedding coordinator and the officiating pastor to gather all the necessary details. You should know if the church has any specific regulations about the use of candles, flower arrangements, or other decor. It’s also helpful to ask about things like the availability of the church, any fees for using the space, and whether you’ll need to hire specific vendors. By having all of this clear from the start, you’ll be able to make informed decisions and avoid any last-minute issues.

 

Get There on Time

   In most church weddings, the groom and the officiant are already waiting at the altar when the bride makes her grand entrance. The last thing you want is to make a dramatic entrance because you were late. It’s important to arrive at the church early so you’re ready for the ceremony when it begins. If the ceremony is scheduled to start at 5:00 p.m., make sure you’re not rushing in at 5:05 p.m. Adjusting your lipstick or making a quick trip to the restroom before the ceremony starts can lead to unnecessary stress. Arriving on time is a simple but essential aspect of wedding etiquette—especially if it’s your own wedding!

   Being late could give the impression that you changed your mind, and it’s important to avoid sending mixed signals to your partner, your family, and your guests. It also allows the photographer and videographer to capture all of the important moments right from the start. So, plan ahead and be punctual to ensure everything runs smoothly.

 

Do Not Look at Your Feet

   Many brides get nervous during the walk down the aisle, which leads them to focus too much on their shoes and the floor in front of them. While it’s understandable to be concerned about tripping on petals or having your dress get caught on decorations, remember to look up! Making eye contact with your guests or, even better, focusing on the groom standing at the altar will help calm your nerves and make the moment feel even more special.

   Additionally, avoiding looking down will improve how you appear in your wedding photos and video. It will allow you to walk gracefully, making for a more beautiful and confident presentation as you make your way to the altar. Your guests will appreciate your composure, and you’ll have gorgeous footage to cherish for years to come.

 

Tête-à-Tête Vows

   When the time comes to exchange vows, it’s important to face your partner directly. While it may seem obvious, some couples don’t think to fully turn towards each other during this intimate moment. Instead of simply turning your head to look at your spouse, step back and turn your whole body. This simple movement enhances the emotional connection between the two of you and creates a more intimate atmosphere during the ceremony.

   This approach has several advantages: First, it allows you to fully experience the moment, feeling the weight and significance of the vows you’re making. Second, it gives your guests a better view of the exchange, helping them to feel more involved in the ceremony. Third, it looks incredible on camera, ensuring that your wedding video will capture the full emotion of the moment.

By turning your body toward your spouse during the vows, you’ll be able to fully focus on the commitment you’re making and share this incredibly special moment with your guests. It may seem like a small gesture, but it will make a big impact on your ceremony and your photos.

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